This post is actually a more extended version to what I wrote in the Seduction Chronicles PUA Forum, when someone asked how some guys end up with girls after a night of going out and others don’t.

So here’s the deal. I’ve gotten a bit rusty lately, but last week I had the perfect example in front of me. I went out with a guy I met that day (coincidence) and he showed me again what it means to have fun going out. This guy just talked to everyone without any problem at all. He was making fun of people, but he could be genuinely interested as well. He has a girlfriend, but there were at least 3 chicks that night he could have pulled. The thing is, when he talked to a girl, he would tease her a bit from the start. He made her know from the start that he was about fun and not taking anyone too seriously.
Now, if you want to go without tactics and all, just make sure your energetic (have good nightrest and training) and talk to have fun. I have been tired lately, which made it impossible for me to bring fun to a party. If you can bring fun to a party, you will receive fun. And with giving and receiving fun, along comes attention. You will talk to people, but others around you will notice that you are the source of fun and want to talk to you as well. Now, if those people are guys, that’s ok. Just as long as they don’t steal those chicks away from you, but instead add to the fun, you should even reward them by giving them attention and possibly setting them up with girls that you have no or less interest in. Have them talking to those girls, so you can make the guys, but also those girls happy. Once you’ve isolated your target after a good night of fun there should be no problem in kissing her.

That’s my purpose again and I’m looking forward to the weeks to come when I can meet lots of new and interesting people again. There’s only one rule to truly live by when going out: Make some girls HAPPY!